Ani Chhoying DolmaWith several albums and a series of concerts around the globe under her belt, the singing nun of Kathmandu is taking the Nepalese and international music industry by the storm.

Draped in a maroon robe, serene-faced Ani Choying Drolma hardly looks like a pop icon – but her music videos show that she is as comfortable singing and performing as she is meditating with her prayer beads.

This is a woman who stands out from the crowd, a woman who by her own admission loves to do things “which nuns are not supposed to do”.

She goes out with friends to watch Hindi films “like a regular person”, and is not averse to the idea of kicking a football to inaugurate a charity tournament.

Choying has developed a unique style of chanting Tibetan hymns in which she lets the last notes linger for a long period before they ultimately melt into thin air.

She says that while she is not a trained musician in any technical sense, her singing comes from deep within.

Ani Choying Drolma is determined not to let her commercial success get in the way of her efforts to alleviate poverty

“The voice I’m able to bring out to the world is [inspired by] my deep spiritual devotion and my faith in the wisdom of Lord Buddha,” she says.

Troubled childhood

Like scores of other Tibetan refugees, her father came to Nepal in the 1950s. Campaigners say that at least 20,000 fled south across the Himalayas following the 1959 Tibetan uprising against Chinese rule in Lhasa, the capital of Tibet.

Growing up in abject poverty in the refugee quarters of Kathmandu, Choying had a troubled childhood. She says her short-tempered father would beat her and her mother for no apparent reason.

She has recorded these traumas in her autobiography, Singing for Freedom, in which she narrates how she decided at an early age not to marry after witnessing her mother’s suffering.

“My father was someone who exhibited some unpleasant qualities of men,” she told the BBC.

“He made me feel that getting married would be the worst thing to do in life.

“Somehow he was able to… develop a lot of my negative qualities which led to a lot of anger, frustration and bitterness.”

Choying says that when she told her mother about her decision not to marry she received an ultimatum – join a Buddhist monastery and become a nun or stay in the secular world and find a husband.

Desperate to break free, she decided to join a monastery near Kathmandu when she was barely 13 years old.

Discrimination

But she says even there she faced bias against women.

“In monasteries it is thought that women don’t have the capability to development themselves spiritually,” she said.

“There I would dream of going for higher studies and develop myself spiritually but it did not happen.”

Because she could not complete her studies in the monastery she found solace in music – without realising her potential as a singer.

“Singing and dancing were things I enjoyed since childhood,” she said, “while playing with my kid brother or cooking, washing or even when I was very sad, I would sing.”

In the monastery she would meet a lot of devotees from abroad who encouraged her to find her voice.

One of the first music cassettes Choying received as a present made a lasting impact on her – it was by American blues singer and guitarist Bonnie Raitt who rapidly became Choying’s favourite.

Bonnie Raitt has had a big influence on the nun’s music
But the man who really identified Choying’s potential as a singer was American guitarist Steve Tibbetts, who was a regular visitor to the monastery.